4 Things about BDSM

I got some regular client who need a dominatrix service, and I also meet new customers once a while and some of them are new to BDSM and has some mis-understanding about this. Before you decide to enter a BDSM dungeon and participate in a game, here are some things you might want to know.

1.“Extreme”, is different for everyone

Extreme games is a concept different for everyone and as long as there are two or more consenting adults, the word does not exist. For some, extreme is just a light touch with a feather on your bare bottom until you beg him to stop, while for others is an hourly flogging.

2. Pain is not always a prerequisite

While in BDSM, pain is highly considered a form of extreme pleasure, since it helps produce endorphins and thus it can become addictive, it does not mean that you have to feel extreme pain, to participate in a BDSM game. Actually BDSM sometimes has nothing to do with pain and only a small part of it, what we call S/M, has pain involved in the game.

3.Not all BDSM’ers look like models

The handsome male Dom and the beautiful female Sub, exist only in novels and Hollywood. The beautiful thing about BDSM is that it has nothing to do with physical appearance, it has to do with mutual pleasure and that is very liberating and has a unique beauty of its own.

4.BDSM does not always involve sex.

While BDSM can be very sensual it does not mean that it has to be sexual. Many people have been known to have extreme sessions of pleasure, with no sex being involved in the game.

If you would like try BDSM services you could contact me with your question and needs, in case I’m not available some times, I recommend my friend Yui from Cloud9 escort. There are many escorts in London offering BDSM or tie&tease services , you might need to check what they really offering before you make the appointment.