Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

Aaaaaaaand, I’m back. Tragically, I’ve been involved in one of those sticky things hat I was trying to avoid in the first place – a relationship.

Well, what passes as a relationship in my world of (hopefully) NSA sex. I don’t do clingy, I don’t do being at someone’s beck and call. I do my own schedule and that mostly involves me needing my own space. So it confuses guys when I say from the outset ‘Hey, we’re fucking, That’s what we’re doing. But we’re doing it on my terms because that’s how I have to work. I have other things in my life that I have to prioritise. You will not be one of them.’ and then stick by it.

Basically, he was nice, but wanted/needed too much from me.

 

So I’m back. Back on the hunt and delighted to find that either the sun has made guys horny enough to go on the game, or desperate for the cash. My theory is it’s the horn. That small part of you always seems to dictate what the rest of the body does.

 

So a whole new menu to look at, and a shedload of wheat to sort from the chaff…..

 

11 different types of orgasms a Woman can have

Now as a lot of you may know there’s not a lot of things that surprise me when it comes to sex. I consider myself a try-sexual, I try everything once. So while watching Sex and the City (one of my all time favorite shows) I was inspired to look up the female orgasm and I was blown away by what I discovered. I was assuming that there was maybe 4 different types of orgasms but I was sadly mistaken. There are 11 different types of orgasms that a woman can have. You read it right 11! Now why hasn’t this information been shared with the public? Why don’t women know this information? I’m a very sexual woman and I was completely clueless to this information and I personally want to make this information public. So here it is the key to an amazing sex life!

 

1. The Clitoral Orgasm:

This orgasm is the most common and is the result of clitoral stimulation. Intensely pleasurable feelings start within the clitoris and send waves of pleasure throughout the body.The clitoris is the most sensitive area on the female body, being one of the most nerve rich. If you are a guy, imagine ALL the nerve endings in the penis poured into one small area about the size of a pea.The clitoris is so important to receiving pleasure that sexual arousal is always felt there on some level. That is why the clitoris is so responsive to certain kinds of touch.
However, it’s not the same for every woman; it’s sensitivity varies greatly from woman to woman. Some women may prefer a light touch while others may require much stronger and firmer stimulation. For some women, it’s so sensitive that touching the clitoral glans directly is often uncomfortable and unbearable. After an orgasm, the clit may become extremely sensitive to the point of being painful. As a good lover, you should know that, and give your woman a few minutes of rest.
This kind of female orgasm can be given:

Orally. My advice to those women who complain that their partners have no idea of how to give it, show them, communication is key for a woman to achieve orgasm. Tell your partner what feels good and what doesn’t feel good. Help your partner be attentive to your sexual needs.
Fingers: I highly suggest that women masturbate, simply to figure out what you like and what you don’t like. Again, communicate to your partner let them know if they are doing it wrong or if its hurting you. Always keep the clitoris lubricated, it enhances pleasure and helps achieve the orgasm faster.

How does this orgasm feel to a woman ?

A clitoral orgasm can be very intense, but many women describe it as “less deep” than others. Nevertheless, it is extremely pleasurable, and good clitoral stimulation adds a lot to your sex life and helps her “warm up” and prepare for penetration.

sensual girl

2. The Vaginal Orgasm:

This kind of female orgasm begins in the vagina and either stays focused in the pelvic and lower stomach areas, or spreads from there. The uterus, pelvic muscles, and even anus may begin to contract during this orgasm. Those contractions are quite strong and may actually push out anything that was stimulating the vagina. This kind of orgasm takes longer to achieve (it takes a woman on average 20-25 mins to achieve this kind of orgasm) Rhythmic thrusting is often the best way to get her there, a good lover will communicate with his woman and find out the best position for her to reach it.
How does this kind of orgasm feel to a woman ?
Many women describe it as “less intense” than a clitoral orgasm, but more deeply felt. They feel it as a pressure that slowly grows and explodes deep inside the vagina. This varies greatly from woman to woman.

3. The G-Spot Orgasm

This orgasm begins in the G-Spot(which is located 2-3 inches in the vagina) and may stay there while climaxing or it may powerfully explode through the whole body (I like to call this the leg shaker). This spot feels different in texture than the rest of the vagina. It is spongy and coarser in texture than the rest of the vagina, which is normally how it is found. During sexual arousal, the tissue surrounding the urethra becomes engorged with blood and the Para-urethral / Skenes glands produce and fill with prostatic fluid. In fact, this process is very similar to male arousal. As a result, the urethral sponge becomes “erect,” and if you touch it, it feels firm. In other words, this is a kind of female hard-on.

How to reach it:

There are different ways of stimulating the G-Spot. Rhythmic pushing or circular friction movements are the best for achieving this kind of orgasm. One position that is good for reaching this sexual peak is from the back or fingering.
This orgasm may also lead to female ejaculation (see the next section on squirting).

How does this kind of female orgasm feel to a woman ?

This kind of female orgasm takes some time to build( again 20-25 minutes) Many women describe it as a very special, deeply sensual pleasure, which builds until their whole lower stomach and pelvic area explodes. Often, they are carried away for quite some time by the powerful wave of euphoric energy and don’t even realize where they are and what is going on around them (I like to call this one the leg shaker).

Orgasm sensual massage

4. Squirting Orgasm (Female Ejaculation)

This kind of female orgasm is so profound that it deserves a book of its own. It’s mysterious and not a lot of women achieve this in their lifetime. Female ejaculation is generally achieved by stimulating the G-spot, which is considered an erotic zone located internally, at the front of the vagina. This area is intimately connected with the urethra. Indeed, pressure on the G-spot area will invariably produce a desire to pee. A woman has to be EXTREMELY comfortable with her partner or with herself in order for this to be achieved. This kind of female orgasm builds a very deep bond between a woman and her partner. This is the most intimate and delightful thing your woman can share with you.
In short, this powerful orgasm is achieved by using ancient Tantric techniques. It releases negative emotions and fills a woman with light, euphoric energy and a feeling of fulfillment and peace. Squirting makes other kinds of female orgasms look pale in comparison.
Note for single women: if you don’t have a partner or just want to experience this kind of orgasm on your own, here is the good news … it is perfectly possible !

5. The A–Spot Orgasm (The Anterior Fornix Orgasm)

This kind of female orgasm is achieved by stimulation of an area deep in the vagina (about 4-5inches) on the front wall. It is the same wall where the G-Spot is situated. In other words, this is a patch of sensitive tissue at the inner front end of the vaginal tube, between the cervix and the bladder.After an orgasm, the A-Spot does not become too sensitive, and you can easily continue stimulation, bringing your partner to new heights of pleasure, this is why women are able to achieve multiple orgasms.
Many women find the feeling incredibly pleasurable, while some may not like it at all. Keep this in mind when experimenting.

How is this orgasm given:

Basic missionary position, where a man is short-thrusting very deeply during intercourse.
With a hand. Use the same technique you use for stimulating the G-Spot, but in this case, go as deep as your fingers can reach. Simply said, you just try to “scoop it out” with your middle finger.
Many women describe this orgasm as a kind of soft electricity bringing them to a sharp, erotic climax. A few women find this orgasm very similar to the G-spot, while some find it closer to an extremely strong vaginal orgasm.

6. The Deep Spot Orgasm (The Posterior Fornix Orgasm)

This kind of female orgasm is achieved by stimulating the area located almost all the way back in the deepest part of the back wall of the vagina, just before the cervix.Direct stimulation of the Deep Spot can cause very intense orgasms. Some women may feel as if they are having anal sex. This particular area is not widely known, so very few women have ever experienced those sensations.
This kind of female orgasm can be given with a hand, using “Come Hither” motions. Use both long and short strokes, and you can even use two fingers if you like.
Note: first find out what kind of feeling your partner has when you touch her cervix. Some women enjoy it a lot, and some do not like it at all.

the sensual massage is a good way for foreplay

7. The U-Spot Orgasm

This kind of female orgasm comes from the stimulation of a small area of sensitive erectile tissue located just above and on either side of the urethral opening. It is in the small area between the urethra and the vagina. If this region is gently caressed with the finger, the tongue, or the tip of the penis, there is a powerful erotic response.you stimulate this area the same way you treat the clitoris.

Almost every woman can achieve the orgasms above but there are more. These are less common and a woman’s sexuality is key to achieve these.

8. The Breast Orgasm

This kind of female orgasm occurs during a peak of stimulation to the breasts. The nipples connect to nerves in the female genitals and many women feel a direct connection with their clitoris when their nipples are stimulated. Many women feel increased sexual excitement when their nipples are stimulated but not all of them can experience the breast orgasm. This depends very much on how sensitive their nipples are.

9. The Oral Orgasm

This orgasm can be experienced by women who are very sensitive orally. The mouth plays a big role in the sexual nervous system. The mouth orgasm can take place during any sensual oral activity such as kissing, licking, sucking, or performing oral sex. Many women describe the excitement as beginning in their lips and then spreading from the mouth to the genitals and all over the body.
YES you can achieve orgasm while giving head. Every mans dream

10. The Skin Orgasm

This orgasm can be brought about by massaging certain areas of female body that are not directly connected to the sexual nervous system. Examples include orgasms experienced by many women during sensual massages.

Orgasm by erotic massage

11. The Mental Orgasm

This kind of female orgasm can happen during visual and auditory stimulation. Examples of such stimulation are movies, videos, or sexual behavior exhibited in front of others. Women become so turned on that they can actually experience an orgasm from the excitement alone.
Do this: Lay down and turn on a porn or keep the room quiet. Close your eyes and focus on the sounds envision what you think is happening and pretend it is happening to you. Imagine the scenario that you want, let your mind completely take over. Flex your kegal muscles. This takes time and full concentration.

So there you have it, 11 different types of orgasms a woman can have. I hope you all take this information and use it to have the best sex!! Enjoy

Speechless

Back from Caribbean! I arrived home today to my dark and empty flat only to find that the world is exactly as I left it. My phones are filled with “Hi Carmen, what do you do/what are your rates” messages despite my lengthy attempts at descriptive advertising and “away” emails, people simply did not even bother to read. I don’t understand how a man would think that you would want to see him after he’s spoken to you like that but oh well, maybe I’m just different. I can’t help but feel a little disappointed to be home. It seems that I managed to miss a zombie invasion by the looks of my telephone and honestly I could have spent another week out there. I’m possibly planning a trip to Paris in June so I couldn’t really take an extra week off.

Caribbean sunset

I have been noticing lately that conversation is becoming really shallow and meaningless. People just talk for the sake of dialog, to fill a void of silent awkwardness but nobody is really mentally or emotionally engaged with their surrounds or the people they’re talking to. I have not bumped into anyone who is enthusiastic about anything right now and London seems to have taken on a dull, glum aura of general disinterest and discontent. Perhaps it’s the arrival of winter that has changed the mood somewhat but I used to encounter strangers and have spiritual or metaphysical conversations with them; this does not seem to be happening to me lately.

The Caribbean trip proved to be exactly the kind of escape I needed. Far enough away to not have to engage with the outside world and enough media to distract me from my own mind. I really forgot how therapeutic television could be. I spent an entire day doing a movie marathon and have caught up on all the latest blockbusters. I learned a lot from filling my head with fictional nonsense.

One of the movies I saw was Total Recall and while I was watching, realised that we now have a solution for a possible alien invasion. The US government should be throwing money at science fiction movies; it’s the best propaganda material we have made to date. If I was an alien plotting to invade earth and somebody was to beam up Total Recall to my space ship, I’d think twice. We present ourselves as very advanced, very high tech and yet exhibit all of the traits associated with irrational mammals. We have the power to destroy our planet and were stupid enough to do it. That should be enough to scare the wits out of any alien. If that isn’t enough, we could beam up a Twitter feed which reads like the private thoughts of people living in an insane asylum.

I wanted to write something deep and meaningful to quell this vacant feeling inside my soul. I scrolled through all of the major quotation websites and the various top one hundred quotations of all time lists to try and bring you something valuable with content and meaning. Instead of finding an inspirational quotation, I have come to the conclusion that the cumulative knowledge of the world has reached a impasse where nothing is particularly new or enthralling.

Everything that can be said has been said before. Our language lacks a certain depth of connotation to express a notions importance and significance. Love and thought have been failed by their own language. Humanity has been failed by speech. Like dogs on a leash we know what we want to say but just as we reach for the idea the leash rebounds on us and we are left with an empty sentence of unoriginal, vacant words that are tired and overused.

There was more truth in the grunt of our caveman ancestors.

Authors, like artists try to weave words into complex new sentences to create art from the mundane. There is more art in silence. A person of greater depth will interpret more meaning from a moment of silence but actual words will let it down.

If only it were polite for a lady to grunt. I’m sure there is a much more appropriate grunt perhaps combined with a sigh, a sighing grunt so to speak that would more accurately convey an emotion or the soul of human kind.

Announcements

I know that I have been quiet of late and apologise for neglecting my website. My time has been divided amongst several activities and I’m afraid I may have let down the team. There is not much news yet in 2016, just a couple of matters:-

I hate to address this topic in my blog but nobody checks my rate sheet so…. Please note that my rates will not be increased this year in accordance with inflation. In exchange for the luxury of being able to choose who I spend my time with, I am willing to absorb the associated costs. I will however be doubling my charges for back door services as unbeknownst to me, my rates were well below the market average. This is not so much an increase as a pricing correction (in arrears). OMG I crack myself up sometimes.

A matter of much contention, a few key clients and I are still searching for the unobtainable lady to join us in our trysts. We are all very mature, clean people engaging in reasonably vanilla activities. Looking to find a corruptible woman who is (in order of importance) clean shaven, badly behaved (but educated and intelligent), will not be labelled or defined, beautiful (yet as imperfect as I am – hate being upstaged), enjoys good conversation, filthy sex, can be married (we don’t mind but we are not interested in your husband at all), is healthy and maintains a small but accountable group of friends then we would love to hear from you. You will be fully compensated for your time although we require your enthusiastic contribution to the party (we are not looking for a performing artist) and is available in the evenings…. If anybody knows of such a lady or if such a lady may happen upon this article then please feel free to contact me.

I’m currently stay in London paddington area, and I only offer service to areas around paddington. Recently I got some inquires from Marylebone, Kensington and even Heathrow , I’m sorry I can’t visit heathrow airport. For gentlemen need escort services in marylebone or heathrow I recommend you Asian Fantasy Agency (website: http://www.asianfantasyescort.co.uk).

Once again, I am available in the early evenings. This has not been the case so much in the past and so people have stopped asking but I do still require notice.

I apologise to the few who left comments on my site that were not published. A comment attack by spambots meant that if I wanted to salvage your comments, I would have to sort through thousands upon thousands of spam messages. I regret that I chose my sanity instead. If it was something of great importance, please can you re-post. Thank you.

Happy New Year!

I have not blogged recently due to a protracted case of writers block but decided to make this one exception from my literary sabbatical to come out and wish you all a Happy and Prosperous New Year!

I hope you are all having a restful holiday and enjoying your private time.

To the people who care about me and have stuck by me over the past year, I would like to convey my sincere thanks and gratitude.

Here’s to a wonderful 2016, may all of our dreams and wishes come true….

Regards

Carmen

The Four Hour Sales Pitch

Have you ever met a person who from the very first moment of meeting them completely blew you away with their charisma? They have a way of making themselves seem so interesting, the most charming stories and hilarious life experiences, the way they speak is so animated and they come across as an amazing raconteur. A fire side storyteller who you can roast marshmallows with and listen to their incredible tales for hours. For me that’s a dream come true but sometimes as I’ve recently learned it’s not all what it seems…. I think to some degree all people prepare a little introduction about themselves that we may consciously or unconsciously use in business or socially to smooth the way in conversation and add some spice to our otherwise ordinary life and personality.

What I have discovered of late is that some people have not prepared enough copy to maintain conversations on a long term basis. It’s kind of like walking along the road having a great conversation and then all of a sudden you fall off the edge of a conversational cliff. What was that about? Suddenly said raconteur has completely run out of things to say. The convo comes to a complete and grinding halt.

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How to choose escort agency?

Although I am now an independent escort, I also had some experience working in a London Asian escort agency when I first into this industry. I certainly know there are many bullshit thing when you try to choose a right escort agency in London, here I write this guide based on my knowledge to help you pick a reliable agency.

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4 Things about BDSM

I got some regular client who need a dominatrix service, and I also meet new customers once a while and some of them are new to BDSM and has some mis-understanding about this. Before you decide to enter a BDSM dungeon and participate in a game, here are some things you might want to know.

London BDSM

1.“Extreme”, is different for everyone

Extreme games is a concept different for everyone and as long as there are two or more consenting adults, the word does not exist. For some, extreme is just a light touch with a feather on your bare bottom until you beg him to stop, while for others is an hourly flogging.

2. Pain is not always a prerequisite

While in BDSM, pain is highly considered a form of extreme pleasure, since it helps produce endorphins and thus it can become addictive, it does not mean that you have to feel extreme pain, to participate in a BDSM game. Actually BDSM sometimes has nothing to do with pain and only a small part of it, what we call S/M, has pain involved in the game.

3.Not all BDSM’ers look like models

The handsome male Dom and the beautiful female Sub, exist only in novels and Hollywood. The beautiful thing about BDSM is that it has nothing to do with physical appearance, it has to do with mutual pleasure and that is very liberating and has a unique beauty of its own.

4.BDSM does not always involve sex.

While BDSM can be very sensual it does not mean that it has to be sexual. Many people have been known to have extreme sessions of pleasure, with no sex being involved in the game.

If you would like try BDSM services you could contact me with your question and needs, in case I’m not available some times, I recommend my friend Yui from Cloud9 escort. There are many escorts in London offering BDSM or tie&tease services , you might need to check what they really offering before you make the appointment.

Why I only wear custume jewelry ?

As a high class escort living in London , I’m taking very good care of my look – that include expensive makeup , fashionable dresses, luxurious shoes , sexy lingeries (most from victoria’s secrets) but cheap jewelry (fashion jewelry).

my new earring

Why? Here is several reasons that why I love custome jewelry:

Purchasing high quality jewelry made out of expensive materials isn’t something that all of us want or afford, but thankfully there are solutions to help in this regard. If you want to be completely fashionable and obtain stellar results but still stay within your budget, a great idea is to wear costume jewelry. This jewelry brings in quite a lot of benefits, which you can find out more about by reading onward.

Affordable prices

Yes, instead of paying hundreds or thousands on expensive jewelry pieces, the costume jewelry is designed to come with a low cost. This allows you to always get more items to increase your jewelry stash and at the same time you will still be fashionable at all times. Of course, there are costume jewelry items which are very expensive, and this is what makes it perfect, because you have a broad spectrum to choose from.

Creativity

Since it comes with a lower cost, the costume jewelry allows you with complete access to a wide range of materials. This makes it even easier for the jewelry manufacturer to go wild and come up with some extraordinary designs. There are no restrictions coming in from the materials you use, and this makes the whole set very fashionable as well as unique, which is a great thing in this regard.

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A great first impression

Thanks to its looks, the costume jewelry manages to make a statement right from the start, which is a major benefit especially in the case of first dates, interviews or any other similar situations such as those ones. So even if you are on a budget, you can still make a great first impression thanks to the costume jewelry.

A sense of security

Usually, the more expensive pieces made out of prized metals can be scary to wear, as they are very valuable. With the costume jewelry you get a stunning look but at the same time you also receive the security you want, all included in a one of a kind package that you will enjoy right from the start. As for me – an independent escort, I don’t have any agency or bodyguard to protect me, and my safety is very important to me, I won’t wear anything expensive to attract bad guys – London still has some very dark areas….

You can change them often

Thanks to its lower price, the costume jewelry is very easy to wear, and if you get bored with it, you can always acquire new models. This will allow you to have a more diverse set of jewelry items, and thus make you feel better since you can change them based on mood. This sure beats having a single set of precious jewelry.

Customizable

The only limit when it comes to the costume jewelry is the imagination, because this can appear in all shapes and sizes. It can also be customized to the needs of any person, and it also has a great look.

Where to buy custome jewelry?

You can go for ebay, Etsy.com or some high street brand like river island , oasis or zara , some time if you want to spend less money on custume jewelry, you can find some wholesalers online and contact them for samples.

my custome jewelry

Overall, the costume jewelry is designed to impress, and while some items can be expensive, the reality is that most of the time these pieces are very affordable, which makes using and acquiring them well worth it!

 

Come Quickly

As a professional escort I have ‘stay’ expectations from my punters and this has affected my personal life and now expect top performance all the time. This came to a head with the last guy I dated who was a complete surprise. Our first date was so promising I expectantly waited for him to call again. Well, he did call, and I wish he hadn’t bothered. Why? he was the worst premature ejaculator I have ever known. I’m afraid to admit that the second time we met was the first time we had sex. And what an anticlimax.

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