Relaxed Bank Holiday, well sort of!

Soo, you know when someone asks you to help them move, you always think, sure! Of course! (I don’t know about you, but I love a good move ☺) And then you get there with your eager hands and there is always so much more to do than you anticipated?! Suddenly you’re also responsible for carrying things a certain way, packing them perfectly…??? Ugh…that was my Saturday. Of course I am thinking the whole time, I am sure they will do this for me the next time I move…here’s hoping. ☺

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Thank you Easter, I have eaten my body weight in chocolate I’m sure

I am really excited to start blogging on a regular basis – I know, I’ve been saying this forever, right? – but I am really excited to keep this blog going and being able to share snippets of my life with all of you.

I am also planning on updating some of my pics soon too, so stay tuned! Read more

Blog posting rules.

Dear clients and posters on this blog.

I like to agree with you a few rules and a code of conduct that applies to posting on this blog…

Let’s agree on the following:

– No rude language

– No swearing and no insults

– No extreme sexual talk or crazy requests

– Respect for every poster and for me

– Don’ t make It too personal

– Respect everybody’s privacy including mine.

Anybody’s post that violates these rules will be removed.

Thank you for your understanding!

Carmen.

Taking bookings again as normal!!

Hello everybody!!

I am back and am taking appointments again as normal. My voice mail said the first week of December but I was having a really good time so I decided to come back a little bit later. I am sorry if that caused any inconvenience or confusion.

I hope we will still have a little bit of an warm winter although temperatures lower ten degrees are a bit too cold for when I go back to work. Don’t forget it is you who is having a great relaxing time but I have to do the work so wish me luck 🙂

There is another blog post coming soon and it would be nice if anyone who feels like it would respond to it, just like so many of you did with previous posts. Great fun to have such a lively discussion here on the blog.

Hope to see you all soon and wish you a lovely day!!

Carmen.

Hollow

Let me ask you a question. This question I would like to address to both Companions and gentlemen: is there or can there be a certain hollowness to the meeting experience?

I realise I will probably need to clarify what I mean by this question before you can give an honest answer, so here goes.

When meeting someone, particularly if it is as a regular event, can you ever say you really know them? Read more

Winter leave from Wednesday 1st November until the first week of December

Hello everyone,

I hope you are all well and enjoying London’s beautiful Autumn !

I am busy packing my bags and will depart on the 1st of November. So today, Tuesday, is the last day that you can contact me for a booking for today.

I like to thank all my regular clients for your loyalty. There is no better appreciation for my work than to see people coming back. Over the last six months a number of new clients became regulars. That is really nice!! Once more welcome so much.

I will be back in the first week of September. Once I know the exact date when I restart work I will publish it here on the blog. Towards the end of November you can email me or leave me a voice mail or text with your preferred date and time and I will let you know.

Have a great time and I will see you soon!!

Carmen xxx

What’s in a Name?

“A rose by any other name would smell as sweet”

William Shakespeare

The quotation above is a line spoken by Juliet in a famous balcony scene from the tragedy of Romeo and Juliet, in which Juliet argues that the name of something or someone does not matter, only what that something or someone is. This quotation popped into my head when I started reading a post by Cindy on Asian Model Escort‘s blog the other day about name handles (http://www.asianmodelescort.co.uk/choose-business-nickname-carefully/). I don’t really participate on forums and although I tried creating a profile on AdultWork once, it was so high maintenance and complicated to manage – I gave it up. Cindy does however make an excellent point. I often receive emails from people who have created such cheesy nom de plumes from themselves that I have to laugh. Sometimes unluckily, not only is it funny, it can also be rather off-putting. When I read a word like “gwatman” or “knobkerrie” in the header of my email, the clam slams shut. Once this has happened there is precious little one can do to change my mood and once the clam disengages I have no control over her whatsoever. Perhaps, I am overly judgemental but I like to know that I’m dealing with a man and a gentleman and a handle or email name such as the ones mentioned above or a man who refers to himself or his member in the diminutive form suffixed by “kie, tjie, ie” flies in the face of all of my preconceptions of what a gentleman should be.

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Let’s talk about Sexuality

Sexual needs and desires are now widely recognised in psychology as being the second most important human need after survival.

As such, the suppressing or failing to fulfill sexual desires and needs is widely acknowledged in resulting in a range of physical and mental issues, as well as crime.

If this is the wisdom of those who understand the human mind best, it does beg the question, how many of us really lead a fulfilled sexual life and how many of us do not? And what are the potential consequences of failing to follow one’s sexual dreams?

I have long been exasperated by and grown increasingly weary of the debate by the do-gooders, the moral authorities and the perceived “Intelligencia”, who constantly paint the sex industry and sex workers, in particular, in a negative light.

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Pleasure Games New massage services with Sex toy

sexy toy

One of my best friends in Stockholm works for a company dedicated to designing what I always called ‘Sex Toys’. But when I used this description when she visited me in London a couple of weeks ago, I thought she was going to slap me! You should all know ‘Sex Toys’ no longer appears in our urban dictionary – now we have to say ‘Pleasure Toys’! And yes, there is a reason and a good one.

Sex toys are substitutes (bad substitutes) for sex whereas pleasure toys are there to enhance our sexual experience – and believe it or not after many hours of discussion, I know this is something more than a different use of words. It is no longer about the size of the dildo and the realistic copy of the masculine member of our favourite porn actor from the 70s. It is about well-designed objects adapted to the human body and reaching those special places in our body. It is about a tactile experience and vibrations that will make you feel as any human organ.

Those pleasure toys are designed to reach and stimulate those same areas we do during the erotic massage session, for an erotic prostate massage or more kinky and special pleasure…

kiss me

My friend left me with a lot information to process and ideas I am researching in order to come with new services which I will launch on the website very soon. These are the pleasure games, a combination of erotic massage with pleasure toys in order to give that twist to all of you who could feel attracted to the idea of experimenting with new ways of pleasure for man from a different point of view, and of course I will introduce to you my friend Maggie and this new fantastic line of pleasure toys LELO which are based in Stockholm.

 

Thank you for a wonderful evening

This is dedicated to my date on Saturday night ( you know who you are ) . Thank you so much for a wonderful evening sweetheart and my sincere apologies for not being able to stay for lunch 😮 (
Once in a while you have a good feeling about things and this date was no exception. From the first point of contact to the knock on the door, i had butterfly’s going crazy in my stomach. I think what made me nervous but at the same time sweet, is the fact that this was my first ‘overnight date ‘ as ‘Ms Carmen’
Simply for that fact,not to mention that it was also very enjoyable,i can honestly say that this rendezvous will always be remembered.
I hope you had a safe flight home my SAC friend and that BA and terminal 5 didn’t cause you too much havoc.
Till we meet again ……. Hugs and kisses from your BBC lass …..

a perfect night
Carmen xxx
hug From Me To You … xxx
P.S …. I’m not sure going back to see my parents with a big bunch of flowers was such good idea. My mothers already planning my wedding …. ha ha 😮 ))